Falling in love is one of the greatest feelings you will ever experience. It is a high that cannot be matched by any other relationship or substance. Falling in love is like being on top of a roller coaster with that stomach knotting fear of the drop in front of you, and then the fire burning climax you feel throughout the descend.
Caution though: it is easy to be thrown off track by what your friends, family, or society has told you is best for your future. At the end of the day, only you really know yourself. If you think you have found Mr. Right, we have ten reasons he is the one for you.
1. You have fun together.
It does not matter what you are doing, if it is with him, you will always have a good time. From a simple walk in the park to a weeklong vacation, there is never a dull moment. With friends, family, or just the two of you he is always the same enjoyable person.
2. He brings out the best in you.
He has shown you a side of yourself that you never knew existed. That side of you is brave, courageous, and absolutely beautiful. Your friends and family notice your glow every time you are around them. He makes you want to work every day towards the best version of you.
3. He puts in effort.
Complacency is not a thing for him. He takes time out of his busy day to remind you that you are a priority for him. Whether it is a good morning text or a surprise date night, you do not go one day without knowing you are on his mind. Even if it is a casual night out at your favorite pub, he always knows when you need it.
4. He respects your differences.
He loves your independence. Your priorities may sometimes be different and your needs may sometimes be different. He understands that. He does not criticize you or put you down for your differences. You get to be you, and he gets to be him.
5. He believes in you.
He believes that you are capable of climbing the highest mountains and swimming through the deepest seas. He believes in your soul, and you heart. Those are two things he loves most about you. He wants you to go out and conquer the world. He will be right by your side.
6. Your imperfections are perfect to him.
He does not expect you to be one hundred all of the time. He loves you for your flaws because those make you who you are. His favorite time to see you is first thing in the morning with messy hair and no makeup on because he is the only one who gets to see that side of you.
7. He is willing to sacrifice for your dreams.
This relationship is not about one of you being more important than the other. He loves your ambition so when you express your goals he supports you in going after them. He is willing to take a back seat or compromise where needed in order for you to achieve your dreams.
8. His body speaks to your soul.
You connect with him in a way that makes you come alive. Even just the touch of his hand on your leg sends sparks throughout your body. It is as if your body is a maze and he is the only person who knows the right path. The feeling of his body gives you a high, a taste so good, you never want to live without it.
9. He hears you, not just listens to you.
When you speak, he listens to hear you, not to respond. Your voice is important to him. He understands that when you bring up your feelings, you have them for a reason. He may sometimes feel differently, but you always walk away knowing your feelings have been heard.
10. He has you no matter what.
At the end of the day, all that matters is you. Before friends, family, or anyone else you know that he always has your back. Even if he does not necessarily agree with you, he still stands by your side. You can have your worst day and he will still be there holding your hand.
Here’s to you and your happily ever after.
Sarah and Samantha
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